What is Valentine’s Day? Is it a day for romance, roses, chocolate, valentines, and celebrating the people that you love in your life? Or is it just another commercial holiday, and a day where people can turn utterly bitter? As this Valentine’s Day came and past, I witnessed a variety of reactions as the day progressed, with some people happy of Cupid appearing in their day, and others–not so much.

Some people argue that it’s just another holiday to sell things on, such as candy, and flowers. “It’s only a commercial holiday” PR junior Natalie Tokarz argues. At a point, this can be true. A lot of commercials appear on TV, influencing people to go out and buy very expensive gifts for the ones they love. Usually, these things end up being unnecessary tests of affection. Is it necessary to go out and buy a two thousand dollar diamond necklace to express your love for someone? Love shouldn’t have to be bought in order to show it. Others, like junior Dakota Lecos, agree to this, and says that “it’s not a good day to be single.” I saw many of my friends watch others as boyfriends and girlfriends walk hand in hand, happy to be together on this special day.

However, Valentine’s Day can be a great day to celebrate other aspects of your life, too. You don’t need to go out and buy fancy things or candy to prove to someone you care about them. Sometimes homemade gifts can be the most original and special. Taking your time to write out something nice or make something shows you took the time to do something yourself.

You also don’t need to be dating someone to show love. “It can be a great way to show friends and family you love them,” says Teal Hemmerling. This couldn’t be truer! Single or not, showing your family you love them is one of the best things you can do. You can love your friends for sticking by your side, having fun with you, and accepting you when you’re just being yourself.

As this Valentine’s Day came and past, I truly appreciated everything in my life. I didn’t see it as a day to make a mad dash to the store and buy the most expensive thing I saw. I stopped and appreciated the people who make my life special, and that’s what February fourteenth really means.